About us

Remember when it felt like your partner got you better than anyone? It felt so good to be SEEN. Now, small disagreements turn into big arguments. Sometimes you don’t even know what you’re fighting about, but you keep ending up in the same painful patterns. Don’t let your defenses stand between you and your partner. If you would like support getting back on the same page, email me to book a free call.  

After working as a couples counselor for over 20 years, I know that feeling HEARD is the most important thing. Research tells us that 70% of relationship problems are not even solvable. The conflict is not the problem. How we talk to each other about the issues is what makes or breaks relationships. 

I’ve helped thousands of couples create NEW patterns that bring them closer. Learning effective communication skills is way more effective than rehashing the past. I created a simple tool called Connected Communication to help you both feel heard. If you want to become better partners, visit my website to schedule a couples therapy consultation to see how I can help.