Kugler Dan J DR

09-Jan-12
Chris K

I ran across Dr. Kugler's Yelp page and felt compelled to write a review detailing my experience as a patient of his. My decision to share such a negative perspective was not an easy one for me to make, as I strive to turn the other cheek as often as possible, but ultimately I felt that I would be remiss if I didn't at least attempt to caution others who might be considering seeing him as a therapist. I would also like to say that my experiences with Dr Kugler occurred over 7 years ago and that he may have very well changed his behavior for the better since then. Also, I feel it is only fair to point out that Dr. Kugler came very highly recommended at that time by a Christian church in Marin and, for all I know, my encounter with him might easily have been an isolated incident.

My girlfriend and I began seeing Dr. Kugler for couples counseling. We had recently discovered she was pregnant and, unfortunately, she had made the decision to have an abortion. I was struggling with my sadness at her decision and, as a result, I was feeling uncomfortable being intimate with her. I should point out here that she and I had not told Dr. Kugler about the abortion because she wanted to keep that private for the time being and I respected her wishes.

However, Dr. Kugler's approach to the problem was to make sarcastic comments and to blatantly flirt with my girlfriend. I was, of course, shocked and displeased by his unprofessional behavior and never returned for another appointment. I must say that it struck me as not very Christian of him (to say the least). My girlfriend and I broke up soon after.

I am now married to a beautiful and wonderful woman whom I love passionately and dearly, and we are starting a family together. I include this information because I wanted to show that things turned out for the best in the end and that I really hold no malice towards Dr. Kugler for the way in which he behaved back then. That said, I do feel the need to warn anyone who might be considering seeing him for couples counseling.

If you're reading this, Dr. Kugler, I really bear you no ill will. We all make mistakes. let he who is without sin cast the first stone. I'm not throwing stones, Doctor. I truly hope your life is rich and full. God bless.